1. Posted by antdavgan on Sat, Sep 06, 2008, 1:36 pm PDT

why do you need to make her feel special on a first date? You really don't even know her so there is no possible way she could be special to you, at best she is just a person of interest. Be real, women don't ask men out because they don't want to pay the tab.

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2. Posted by emmycello77 on Sat, Sep 06, 2008, 10:39 pm PDT

Hmmm...let's think about this one: why would you want to make somebody feel special? So that if you are interested, there's maybe a teeny-weeny little chance that she is interested in you, doofus! Women don't want to be with men that treat them like crap, so even if you're not sure you're gonna marry your date, at least behave like you're a little interested so that she'll be interested in you. Nothing's more frustrating and pointless than going out with someone who could care less and shows it. If you treat someone like crap, don't be surprised if you get the cold shoulder from every woman in town.

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3. Posted by silancedogz on Mon, Sep 08, 2008, 10:46 am PDT

And what if the girl asks the guy out with the intention of paying for his meal/entertainment, and he has an awful time and can't wait to get the hell out of there? Should he still offer to pay? Methinks that might send the wrong signal. It's an equal-opportunity scene out there, folks. You asked, you pay. And I am a girl.

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4. Posted by Jeef on Tue, Sep 09, 2008, 9:58 pm PDT

50 50 even during the dating process... guys if you want to be nice pay the bill and ask her to leave the tip....

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5. Posted by ................... on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 6:47 pm PDT

wow seriously!! why would she have even agreed to go out with you the second time after you did that! geesh what a gentleman you are!

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6. Posted by dana on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 6:59 pm PDT

ohhhhhh

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7. Posted by mamasreddbaby on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 6:59 pm PDT

lmao!!! CHARRO UR HILARIOUS!!!

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8. Posted by lf8689 on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:00 pm PDT

well antdavgan... if you're trying to get laid on you're first date, make her feel special at dinner so you can feel special later on

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9. Posted by eleven_o_five on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:00 pm PDT

Ditch the valet! I would rather enjoy a bit of a walk with my date than pay to park, which I think is a waste of money.

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10. Posted by thebugger on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:01 pm PDT

Right...because he was being so serious.

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11. Posted by None N on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:01 pm PDT

comment number 5 by Charro is classic!!! hahahaha!!

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12. Posted by lilygrace@sbcglobal.net on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:01 pm PDT

well you made that up!

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13. Posted by Nick P on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:01 pm PDT

Is McDonalds OK for the 1st date?

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14. Posted by Gram49 on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:02 pm PDT

When can you start making the bill 50/50?

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15. Posted by IIovejohnL on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:02 pm PDT

lmao at charro hahha but yeah the texting dont do that thats so rude! i hate when guys do that. so thats why i dont do it. it just shows a sign that your bored.....

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16. Posted by mamasreddbaby on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:02 pm PDT

lmao!!! CHARRO UR HILARIOUS!!!

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17. Posted by lindseyk118 on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:03 pm PDT

ok seriously for the ppl that are complaining about the guy paying... GROW UP! In an adult relationship it's proper etiquette for the guy to pay for the first date. On the second or third date, you can split it 50/50 or have her pay. If you're gonna be feminist, then you shouldn't date because nothing turns a guy off more than a girl having a power trip. Besides what you think, it makes the guy feel special for paying because it's jis way of showing that he has the money to take care of you.

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18. Posted by jeivos on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:04 pm PDT

how about women makin' man special. 50/50 agreed.

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19. Posted by on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:06 pm PDT

hOLD THE WEDDIN'; WHY WOULD SOMEONE WANT TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE FEEL THEY ARE SPECIAL?

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20. Posted by roseyroses14 on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:06 pm PDT

I remember having a debate over who pays the check in the end, its whoever asks should pay. Usually, if you want to be old-fashioned, the guy will pick up the check. But nowadays, if you're asking that means you're paying, no exceptions. Well, unless you both agree to go to the bathroom at the same time and crawl out the windows, but I doubt you'd find someone willing to do that.

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21. Posted by Stars S on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:06 pm PDT

I don't understand why everyone thinks it's only the girls who deserve to be treated special. Split the checks, people.

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22. Posted by kfordlou on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:06 pm PDT

or more like "why did you ask her out on a second date after you had to crawl out the window on the first one?"

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23. Posted by kpaluoian on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:07 pm PDT

Any woman that wouldn't go out with a guy again if he didn't use valet parking or let the woman pay part of the meal is a shallow woman that isn't worth seeing again anyways.

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24. Posted by Alan on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:08 pm PDT

Helllllllo, Gary Quarton!!! :) Please tell me that you are a friend of "Charro", and that he gave you $5 or a beer to enter your comment after his, to make his comment sound more believable to anyone who believes whatever they read without thinking about it at all. Charro has shown us that he can type something mildly entertaining along the lines of idiot comedy; but I guarantee you that it did not happen. Period.

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25. Posted by cbrambl on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:09 pm PDT

Yeah, I know that I would actually be offended if I couldn't pay for my part of the bill. I'm not helpless, and I'm not going to let myself feel guilty for letting somebody blow their money on something I got. Though I do like it when a guy does offer, it means he's trying to make an effort.

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26. Posted by Jack F on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:09 pm PDT

ABSOLUTELY AGREE--ESPECIALLY ON THE TEXTING--You girls need to listen up on that one--you're almost all bad at this. No answering the phone or texting while out with a guy--I don't do it to them. Like picking my nose--I'll check my phone messages/calls/texts in the bathroom. Otherwise it's just rude.

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27. Posted by brandtgibson14 on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:09 pm PDT

I'm sorry but you are all idiots.

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28. Posted by angel on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:09 pm PDT

most of you fellows should just pack it up and go home alone! apprarently my generation have raised abunch of animals! humm dosen't say much for our parenting skills does it!

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29. Posted by crimson_author on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:09 pm PDT

lol... are you sure about that emmycello77? Most women I know are dating compelte [profane]s that treat them like crap. Remember high school as well? Girls lining up to date the jock that treated them like crap for awhile before moving on? And if you say you don't know any woman like that, you're full of it.

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30. Posted by austin_rolling on Fri, Sep 12, 2008, 7:10 pm PDT

That is funny as hell

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