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10 Steps to a Stress-Free Holiday Season

Posted Tue, Oct 21, 2008, 5:31 pm PDT
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Fall is our favorite time of year. We say sayonara to summer and good day to the season of back-to-back non-stop celebrating. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukah... there is so much to enjoy (despite our dismay over the extra pounds we pack on due to all that candy, stuffing, and eggnog!). But without a little pre-planning, the holidays can become a stress-fest. This year, save yourself the angst by getting a jumpstart on the holidays. Here's our Foxy how-to:

  • Guess Who's Coming to Dinner  Discuss holiday plans with friends and family now, rather than waiting until holiday time is upon you. Get a sense of how many people are going to attend Thanksgiving dinner at your house. Even send out an email invitation through Evite -- it's free (sweet!) and a great way to get people to commit. Give them a deadline, so you'll know well in advance how many will be on the guest list.
  • Flip, Find, File  Spend a half hour flipping through your favorite cookbooks or surfing online for recipes. Collect ideas in a file folder, and one night while you're enjoying your favorite TV show, make a menu. Keep it simple and don't overdo it  -- many people make the mistake of cooking too much. Look for dishes that can be made ahead of time and frozen. Those will make life even easier down the road.
  • Divide & Conquer  Share the workload! Hosting a holiday doesn't mean you have to do all the work. Dole out responsibilities to family members or friends, whether it's asking them to make dessert, bring extra ice, or supply wine.
  • Get Mean & Clean  Yeah, it's not our favorite thing to do either, but carve out a half day to do some cleaning. Wash and iron your good table linens, if necessary. Polish the silver. Clean the windows in your living and dining rooms. Give the kitchen a good thorough scrubbing (and while you're at it, you may want to pull out some of the baking dishes and other things you'll need at holiday time).
  • Sharpen Up  Make sure your slicing-and-dicing knives are sharp. Use a knife sharpener to spruce them up, so that your holiday cooking will be easy and breezy.
  • Fill the Freezer  Make one side dish every week or two and freeze it. Many casseroles and soups can be prepared ahead of time and then baked or reheated when you're ready to serve them. Another goody to bake-and-freeze: Christmas cookies.
  • Make Your List & Check It  Put together a gift list. Separate it into people that you can make gifts for and those that you need to purchase gifts for. You may want to offer teachers, delivery people, or others a token of thanks in the form of homemade banana bread, holiday cookies, or handmade holiday ornaments. Photo gifts make a great gift for grandparents and other family members.
  • Mellow Out Your Mail  If you're like us, you have a love/hate relationship with holiday cards. It's a thoughtful way to stay in touch with people you don't talk to frequently, and it brings cheer to loved ones around the holidays. But writing, labeling, stamping, and sending can be a huge ordeal. Make it easier by ordering cards in advance. We love the inexpensive, adorable holiday return address labels available on Etsy. And save yourself a long wait in line at the post office by ordering stamps online.
  • Save For Santa  Put aside five or 10 dollars a week to put towards that painful credit card bill that comes after the holidays. Think of it as your extra "hidden" savings account.
  • Jingle All The Way  Create CD mixes of your favorite music to play during the holidays. A nice jazz mix for Thanksgiving dinner, a retro holiday mix for Christmas Eve, or some laidback, clubby alternative tracks for a cocktail gathering.

Check out these ready-to-go Thanksgiving menus.

14 Comments

  • 1. Posted by mccool on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 2:07 am PDT

    Don't shop for any one. The fact is most of the gifts you buy are things people don't want any ways, plus you don't waste your time and money. The holidays are for Jesus Christs birth celebration. It is not for giving other undeserving people things. So enjoy the season with out the gift giving. Share some baked goods with a friend. The stress will go away knowing you don't have to shop during the ignorant time of year. Peace love and joy are what it is all about, not money wasting. Merry Christmas and happy holidays to all.

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  • 2. Posted by on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 3:01 am PDT

    The man known as Jesus was born in the spring. Christmas being in December is just the Christians' way of converting Pagans to Christianity by celebrating a holiday around the same time as the pagan Yule celebration. Celebrate if you want, or don't. Buy gifts if you want, or don't. Either way, the winter holidays are a time to enjoy family and friends. Happy Yule, Kwanza, Chaunnakah, Christmas, etc. :)

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  • 3. Posted by am-fm@att.net on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 6:14 am PDT

    Jesus Christ died for all of us "undeserving" individuals. God loves us unconditionally and Jesus Christ came to teach us this, and to love our neighbors as ourselves. Love is giving. Jesus Christ -the greatest gift giver of all time gave His own life so we could live abundantly and be able to share eternity with God. He gave. We celebrate His Birthday (even though we don't do it exactly on THE day) - we acknowledge and spread the joy and celebrate by giving as an expression of God's love. Every good and perfect gift comes from God, even if it comes from you or me or whoever. The Magi gave gifts to the Lord Jesus the day He was born. We do the same...only the Lord would have us give to eachother as an expression of celebrating His Birthday. It's a time to give and celebrate the birth of our Savior. He wants us to give. Provide for your families and then give, even if it's a home made gift such as cookies. (Remember the carol about the little drummer boy?) It makes one feel good and acknowledges the ones you care about with unconditional love and consideration . If you don't have the money to buy presents, then cook a pot of gumbo to share or make an ornament. You will feel better knowing you gave something as an expression of the love of Christ, who gives us so much. If hard times prevent gift-giving, then tell others just that...people understand. I've been in that situation, too. Everyone experiences rough times. But when I can, I always give presents. It's not about the money, but about the love. Love is giving...and even if the recipient ends up giving it away or returning it, it doesn't matter. You showed them an expression of God's love. Whether they accept it or reject it, you gave unselfishly. It is better to give than to receive. God bless yall and may yall have a wonderful and prosperous (in every way) Christmas and New Year! Remember, it's about CELEBRATING JESUS CHRIST! : D

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  • 4. Posted by gmal on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 7:49 am PDT

    Remember,when you stress out during holiday time you are not likeable. Relax and give time and love to family and friends. All the others are optional with YOUR time or MONEY!!!!!

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  • 5. Posted by texasgirl on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 7:54 am PDT

    Geez Louise, just celebrate the season but don't forget the reason. No need to go on and on about why - mccool, coeXist, am-fm@att.net you 3 are a turn off.

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  • 6. Posted by Samm W on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 8:48 am PDT

    Yes, there IS a spiritual, as well as secular meaning to the season. That said,LIGHTEN UP! The two can co- exist peacefully,without getting "saintly" or cynical!

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  • 7. Posted by gjinqafarena@att.net on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 10:15 am PDT

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  • 8. Posted by little buddy on Fri, Nov 21, 2008, 6:14 am PST

    I think this list had some good ideas that maybe I'll use this year.

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  • 9. Posted by daneiki on Fri, Oct 31, 2008, 7:23 pm PDT

    Tip # whatever - de-stress by going on a Christmas shopping spree earlier in the year when you feel a desperate need to be out of the house. You're more likely to find a wide array of items people would enjoy, possibly on clearance, and you don't have buyer's remorse afterward because, hey, you just knocked out Christmas shopping. Yeah, in case you weren't sure, I'm mostly done shopping for this year - I had one day in early September when the kids were driving me *crazy*, so the hubby watched them while I went Christmas shopping at a discount store. Average amount spent per person? $10. Not having to body check another mom to get at the last Holiday Barbie? Priceless. Now I can relax and bake cookies with the kids!

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  • 10. Posted by granvillespence on Fri, Nov 21, 2008, 9:20 am PST

    Ok I have a cure for all you stress out people during and after the holidays: 1) massage the mind with a good book 2) massage the body using a license massager, full body or chair' 3) relax with a glass of wine and think good thoughts 4) bap :)

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  • 11. Posted by Kanay D on Tue, Nov 25, 2008, 1:01 am PST

    Tip for a stress free holiday season- relax. Things don't have to be perfect, nothing ever is, so just chill out and go with it. Deligate jobs, save each week to lessen the financial burden, and most important ENJOY. It only comes once a year. And for those who don't *want* to have a pleasant holiday with family and friends, there is always Festivus. Cheers :)

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  • 12. Posted by acornsministry2@sbcglobal.net on Tue, Nov 25, 2008, 7:27 am PST

    Let us all remember that "Thanksgiving" is not just a day on the calendar, but it is an appropriate and necessary response to the GRACE that GOD has manifested in our individual lives and thr life of our Great Nation. We must needs be , give thanks to God for his manifold blessings ---- even in the difficult times we face. It is evident that we have already been blessed and 'highly favoured of The Lord' , as reflect on our past. I Give Thanks to God for that that He has already given; firstly, a list too long, and graces too profound to be enumerated by my limited capacity too fathom the length and breath of His 'simple blessings'. OUR MIND WOULD GO INTO, WHAT I CALL, "GRATITUDINAL OVERLOAD". I MERELY, AGAIN, GOD'S GRACE THAT GIVES US THE AUTONIMITY...TOO JUST, BE THANKFUL SOMETIMES. COSMIC JUSTICE ALONE WOULD RELIGATE US INTO A PITIFUL STATE OF RAVING 'MADNESS OF GRATITUDE'...IF IT WAS NOT FOR HIS GRACE. WE CAN START, "THANKSGIVING" BY GIVING THANKS FOR HIS GRACE. In Christ Jesus, Rev. Herman S. Robinson,Founder The A.C.O.R.N. s Ministry

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  • 13. Posted by Ali on Sat, Dec 06, 2008, 2:23 pm PST

    here's my tip to add, and i'm not trying to offend anyone, this may be a holiday about Jesus, but forget all about that unless you're sitting in Christmas Mass. I say, just let loose and have fun!!

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  • 14. Posted by sweetopu on Wed, Jan 14, 2009, 5:28 pm PST

    Hey what exactly is STRESS anyways? Doesn't truly mean that it's a choice. We all have choices in life, it's truly a personal thing, so however your able to just be ok with life and yourself your family and friends, should truly be good enough for all that care about you. Enjoy each day simply because it is a choice, and we're all intitled to be happy. Aloha!

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