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5 Reasons Why You Can't Lose Weight -- And How To Fix Them

Posted Tue, Sep 11, 2007, 6:47 pm PDT
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You haven't had a bite of pizza or a lick of ice cream in, like, forever, but you still can't lose a pound. Waz up with that? Here's what, plus some expert fixes.

1. Consciously or Not, You're Clueless
"Very few Americans tell the truth about what they eat," says Elizabeth Somer, RD, author of 10 Habits That Mess Up a Woman's Diet. In one USDA study, more than 80 percent of women underestimated their daily food intake by 700 calories! Part of the problem is visual: Most people don't have a clue what a true portion looks like, Somer says.

The Fix

  • Find your measuring cups and spoons and, if you don't have one, buy an inexpensive kitchen scale.
  • Then measure out the recommended portions of everything you eat for a week. You'll quickly be able to accurately identify a 1/2-cup serving of pasta, a 2-ounce muffin, 1 teaspoon of butter, a cup of cereal, or a 4-ounce portion of chicken.


2. You Skip Breakfast
Successful dieters share a common habit: They eat breakfast, say University of Colorado researchers who monitor people who have lost at least 30 pounds and kept it off for a year or more. The benefits are big. As well as preventing 10 AM attacks on the vending machine, eating breakfast boosts mood, memory, and work performance.

The Fix

  • Adopt the gold standard: Top 1 cup of whole-grain cereal with berries and fat-free or low-fat milk. Add OJ and coffee, and you're good to go for hours.    
  • Try the make-ahead version: The night before, put these into a preheated wide-mouth thermos: 1/2 cup old-fashioned oatmeal, a few chopped dried apricots, brown sugar to taste, a dash of cinnamon, a drop of almond extract, and 1 cup of hot fat-free or low-fat milk. Close tightly. In the morning, just open the thermos, sprinkle with slivered almonds, and spoon out a warm, delicious, ready-to-eat breakfast!


3. You Eat Unthinkingly
Do you nibble off other's plates? Constantly taste test while cooking? Feed small fry in one-for-you, one-for-me bites? Each mindless nibble averages 25 calories, and with only four mindless bites a day, you gain a pound a month.

The Fix

  • Turn mindless into mindful eating, says Somer, by keeping a food journal and writing down every single thing you eat. You'll be amazed.
  • Eat food only after it's served on a plate.
  • Eat sitting at a table, not watching TV, driving, or flipping through magazines, and don't rush meals -- enjoy each bite.


4. You Drink More Calories Than You Know
Sugary sodas, teas, and juice drinks don't fill you up, yet they pack on pounds. So do happy hours. For example, sweetened bottled green tea has 140 calories, the equivalent of an order of hash browns. And a large margarita can have up to 800 calories, more than four cake doughnuts!

The Fix

  • If you can't give up regular soda, make it an occasional treat.
  • Nix super-sized cocktails and drinks made with high-calorie mixes or cream.
  • At parties, alternate a glass of wine with a glass of sparkling water.
  • Make your own iced green tea and sweeten lightly (1 teaspoon of sugar has only 16 calories). The plus: Home-brewed tea usually has more healthy antioxidants, which often get lost in commercial processing.
  • Cut juice calories by mixing 1/3 cup of OJ, apricot nectar, or your favorite juice with 2/3 cup sparkling water.   


5. It's Not You, It's Your Life
You swear you want to eat well, but in the next breath lament how hard it is to find the time, money, or mental energy to make it happen.

The Fix

  • Try tough love: Stop blaming others, the weather, your job, your life, the dog, etc.  Focus on reaching your goal. "People lose weight every day, often despite overwhelming odds," Somer says.
  • List your excuses, then brainstorm solutions: Lack of time? Cook large quantities and measure out portions to eat throughout the week. Keep meals simple. Buy prepared foods, including sliced veggies and fruits. Make eating right easy. It will work, and it will make you not just slimmer and healthier but physically younger: Maintaining a desirable weight can take 6 years off your RealAge.

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  • 1. Posted by B on Wed, Sep 12, 2007, 11:59 am PDT

    need diet information for men aswell

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  • 2. Posted by Janie V on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 9:56 am PDT

    Wow. This is all good info and very true. Thanks for posting this online.

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  • 3. Posted by lets_rumble_in_2003 on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:00 am PDT

    I found these tips to be of great use. But, I agree with the writer relative to the water issue. Too much can be detrimental to your health. Thanks for the great tips!

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  • 4. Posted by deyana j on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:00 am PDT

    could be nice to get some tips to lose wgt around 10 kgs a month...possible? i do yoga .....

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  • 5. Posted by Rachael P on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:03 am PDT

    Good points made here, especially about what we drink. Cutting out alcohol can make a world of difference!!

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  • 6. Posted by akflashtaz on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:07 am PDT

    I live in Alaska, and during the winter it is very hard not to pack on the pounds, it's like no matter what you do you still end up with a layer of fat to keep you warm. I try and stay away from the no-no group of foods, but the long cold dark winters nights are no match for me, you give in because there is nothing else to do. I now have learned how to keep the weight down, I run a chain saw and swing an 8 pound maul, to split my wood to keep my house and family warm, that keeps me from snacking all day and I sleep better, I don't snack at bedtime.

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  • 7. Posted by rnlgh4 on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:29 am PDT

    Any suggestions for a quick start to loosing weight. I have alot to loose, and could use some pointers.

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  • 8. Posted by skloack on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 10:55 am PDT

    Great ideas - I found watching my carbs also helps expecially for a quick start on weight loss. However, I am older and have a very slow metobolic rate, even though I excerside 3-4 times a week I can't seem to shed that extra 10 pounds - guess I need a choke treatment for my system. Quick start diet - 1200 calories then work back up. be sure to excersize daily.

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  • 9. Posted by cafin2 on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 11:16 am PDT

    Great tips but I need help to lose weight. I do ok except when I'm stressed then its pass the chocolate and soda time. Any tips out there? My metabolism is alot slower these days, too, so that doesn't help. It seems like the weight just hangs on.

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  • 10. Posted by aquarius_aquariums on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 11:28 am PDT

    Stop counting calories! Eat what you want. Cut down on your portion size and don't eat 3-4 hours before bed time. That's it! You will lose weight with NO excercise. I lost 22 lbs in four weeks. No pills, no excercise.

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  • 11. Posted by Ron S on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 11:33 am PDT

    Use a Kettle for hot water. I like using a coffee thermos and fill it with steaming hot water from the kettle. Then at work can make a bowl of oatmeal and coffee relatively easily...

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  • 12. Posted by Profundit on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 12:17 pm PDT

    Not bad in general however leave the non-fat low fat milk out of the cereal and us water, also drop the added sugar! Use whole grain oats and not oatmeal, wheat or rye berries, tritcal or a blend. Oz and Real Age are not the best experts on this, neither is Bob on Oprah. They go for Splenda which is similar to DDT and commercial foods with lots of additives. At least 8 glasses of water is a minimum in spite of what some studies say, and use only water. Coffee, tea, juice, soda don't count. Drop all the diet foods, cook real food and skip the microwave cooking because it causes nutritional deficieny and raises cholesterol.

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  • 13. Posted by fay w on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 12:23 pm PDT

    I weighed 235 32 years ago and lost down to 140. A year ago i had tacacardia attack. Dr. put me on coreg this stuff made me gain 40 lbs so far and i am short of breath. I cannot loose a pound even if i go on water i will still gain weight . the dr says its all in my head and will not listen to me. SOooo any sugestions out there!!!

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  • 14. Posted by Sing-Sangha on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 12:26 pm PDT

    These are great suggestions, but I'd have to disagree about adding 1/3 cup of your favorite juice to 2/3 cup sparkling water. WHAT?!? Does the writer not know how high in sodium sparkling water is? High sodium intake can make you totally bloated--not to mention make you crave more sugar! One serving is probably not that bad, but who stops at one serving when trying to re-hydrate? The best thing is to drink 100% natural juice that includes pulp and fiber to buffer the sugar--NOT colored sugar water--that's been flash-pasturized to keep most of the beneficial nutrients.

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  • 15. Posted by fay w on Thu, Sep 20, 2007, 3:16 pm PDT

    I weighed 235 32 years ago and lost down to 140. A year ago i had tacacardia attack. Dr. put me on coreg this stuff made me gain 40 lbs so far and i am short of breath. I cannot loose a pound even if i go on water i will still gain weight . the dr says its all in my head and will not listen to me. SOooo any sugestions out there!!!

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  • 16. Posted by dee on Wed, Sep 26, 2007, 2:26 pm PDT

    fay w- google "raw food diet" or http://www.welikeitraw.com/rawfood/before_after/index.html or http://www.ibeatobesity.com/ do your research - this will work for you- if you have questions you can email me at dee66044@yahoo.com

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  • 17. Posted by bettybullard on Wed, Sep 26, 2007, 2:50 pm PDT

    This is bull! There are times you have a problem because if you take a lot of meds, like I do, then it is twice as hard. I exercise everyday, I walk between 1-4 miles a day. I am very careful in what I eat. I stay on a 1800cal. diet. I see my doctor every three months. So please don't lump us all in one bunch. I get very upset when I read stories like this one. Give Us A Break!!

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  • 18. Posted by C & R F on Wed, Sep 26, 2007, 2:54 pm PDT

    I am always hungry. I take Sequorel med's and i have gained mega lbs: I am 53yrs, my weight is 240lbs: I have severe Arthritis and pains all over in my joints and my body: I wish that I didn't like food. My biggest fall back is CHOCOLATE: I have a hard time moving since I had knee surgery 1 yr ago: Can someone suggest what I can do: I also would like a Friend to help me lost weight with:

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  • 19. Posted by sassy252 on Wed, Sep 26, 2007, 3:10 pm PDT

    Meds are notorious for weight gain and those who don't have to deal with it are usually the ones who say that meds don't cause weight gain... Meds and age also make a difference when i started 20 yrs ago on one med i kept the weight down but as I have aged it is getting harder aND HARDER TO STOP IT.

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  • 20. Posted by niawest on Wed, Sep 26, 2007, 4:08 pm PDT

    If you can't lose weight, you may have a slow metabolism, or been on so many yo yo diets that your body is holding on to your fat for dear life in order to protect you from starvation. step one, check your bmi and bmr to find out how many calories you need...i won't explain just google "bmi calculator". Step two, look up superfoods and then eat them. Step 3 get moving!! Don't rely on doctors, they are "practicing" medicine, and they're in the pockets of pharmaceutical companies...synthetic pills aren't always the answer...consider doing a detox cleanse to get your body ready to except nutrients, you'll look and feel years younger. Good Luck!

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  • 21. Posted by fay w on Sat, Sep 29, 2007, 6:02 pm PDT

    hi cnrf send me your e-mail address so we can jabber/ im intrested in your problems thay sound like mine i need knee surgery on one of my knees also. I can not walk 4 miles like some people i have had 4 back surgerys and 2 neck surgerys and im full of titanium . and the heart problems is another story and the heart problems are heriditary. swo some people are very lucky thay can exercise and enjoy life walking also the drs left my last surgery go to long and i have a numb right leg . thanks for listening fay

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  • 22. Posted by oldbird51401 on Sun, Sep 30, 2007, 12:14 pm PDT

    I'm dealing with post menapause and I've been retaining fluid. Do you have any suggestions what I can do?

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  • 23. Posted by robinholleman52 on Sun, Sep 30, 2007, 3:29 pm PDT

    Fay W I feel your pain I have somthing wrong with me too. I think some of the medicines I am taking are slowing down my metabolism. Because so many people must lie about what they eat even when you keep an accurate diary of your food for a week nobody believes you. It is frustrating.

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  • 24. Posted by fay w on Fri, Oct 05, 2007, 1:52 pm PDT

    thanks ! when i started on coreg i was having problems that i never had shortness of breath and weight gain and i kept telling the dr. and all he said was its your emagination.Well my emagination H--- I went to the comp and looked it up and sure enough there it was. Now not only do i have one med to give me the weight i have 2 coreg and Advair that i can breath which is a steroid. So isent that cool. And for you all out there that are sayin oh she smokes NO WAY!!!!!

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  • 25. Posted by fay w on Fri, Oct 05, 2007, 1:55 pm PDT

    After keeping my weight off for 32 years and this is happening to me i could just frooooup.

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  • 26. Posted by daria_if on Tue, Oct 09, 2007, 6:51 am PDT

    cool good tips

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  • 27. Posted by SJ on Wed, Oct 17, 2007, 2:45 pm PDT

    This is all fine and well, but what about those of us who aren't overweight, and want to trim up? I eat breakfast, hate soda, don't drink, and sometimes excercise. I eat healthy food and park farther away from stores to walk just a little more. How do I loose that extra 5 or 10 pounds?

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  • 28. Posted by fay w on Fri, Oct 26, 2007, 8:41 am PDT

    that 5 or 10 lbs are the worst to get rid of. you almost have to quit eating all together or get on the tread mill and go for it and it will also trim you up also a high protein diet for 5 or 6 days will do it also. also the book called "Dr. Gott's"no flour,no sugar diet is a great way to go.my husband and son are on this and this is the way i cook thay have lost . my problem is still meds. Darn

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  • 29. Posted by leej c on Tue, Apr 01, 2008, 6:13 pm PDT

    i came from the Philippines and everyday i really sweat back home, coz of the weather. but here in the US everyday is freaking cold (coz im not used of the weather) but since i was here i keep on exercising, jog, run and walking. My food would be, green leafy veggies and some tea at night which is sooo good...

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  • 30. Posted by kayla s on Tue, Apr 01, 2008, 7:17 pm PDT

    Cool tips. I tried them and they actuly work. I Have a hard time dealing with chocolate though. Im only 24 and so far i have had 1 neck surgery, a fake hip, 3 leg surgerys, and a heart sergy.You rude people are complaining about how running and excersizing is horribul, yet im in a wheelchair and long to do bolth!

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